Benny Blanco revealed that he is not allowed to talk about his sex life with Selena Gomez
The music producer and husband of the singer clarified in his podcast that he keeps the privacy of his marriage private out of respect and chivalry.
Details about what happens in Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's room will be kept strictly private. The music producer, 38, recently revealed that he is prohibited from publicly discussing the sexual life he shares with the singer and actress, whom he married in September 2025.
The confession occurred during the episode of his podcast Friends Keep Secrets, after his co-host, Lil Dicky, openly asked him about the intimacy of their relationship. When questioned, Blanco was forceful: “I am not allowed to talk about it publicly.”
This statement raised alarm bells about possible strict privacy control by the “Only Murders in the Building” star. However, the producer was quick to debunk rumors suggesting that Gomez, 33, had forced him to sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) to legally protect his intimate life.
“No, it's simply that I am a gentleman,” Blanco emphasized during the conversation. "It's like my own rule, something I do. I'm a gentleman or something, I don't know," he added with a laugh, making it clear that the restriction comes from a personal decision based on mutual respect and not from a legal imposition.
The couple, who began their courtship at the end of 2023 and recently celebrated six months of marriage, have chosen to establish clear boundaries with the media.
Although they often share romantic and everyday moments on social networks, Blanco has decided that the intimacy of the home is not part of the show.

